Do you wonder about ghosting? Have you heard of or engaged this understanding before? Do you wonder more about you, or the one who ghosts? Is it something that should concern you or not so much? Let us look there and suggest something other than the initial considerations. Is there something more here that you have not yet considered because ego has been so grossly offended by the walking away from, as opposed to the welcoming of what might otherwise be? Do you see?
Ghosting
We suggest that there is a degree of fascination with the control one can wield and display. It is that they are sought after, and that encourages more like-kind action as they are in the midst of a domino effect or like a crescendo in an orchestral play. It is the climax before the crescendo. Do you know what we suggest?
So what do you choose? What are the choices you see that await your selection?
Ego Is at Play
It is that often, there is an egoic twist to all of this. It is that the one seeks for more to be, but not in an aligned or enlightened way. It is that they seek for more to be in an egoic fashion that is not to be minimized and now is to be considered here. Yes, there is a play underway, and you must step out of the way to allow the dominoes to fall as they may. It is that there is a discovery here that must be found regarding the one who is not responding. Yes, that one who is non-responsive now, well, that is for a purpose.
It is not a highly evolved purpose, but it is one worth noting and exploring today. It is the exploration that you might find most intriguing, for these ones are on a purposeful adventure of their own making. They are as they are because they seek to know in another way. They seek in a way of wanting what perhaps you do not see. It is an innate desire that involves who they no longer communicate with and to.
They seek to receive an inward gratification from leaving another adrift. It is that they look to create such as they see this one, or that one leaving communications and updates in an unresponsive way. They do not seek to uplift, but rather communicate something else.
Do you see that many operate in this way? They operate so that they receive the validation they so inwardly covet. It is a feeling that is craved. Keep tabs on your ego so that you can curtail what it seeks to bestow.
So we will say, when this becomes apparent, and you do not remain within their immediate frame of reference, release them. Know that in time, they will circle back around. But recognize that they are playing by alternate rules of engagement—engagement that is not welcoming or kind. Release and remove, for they have already done so in this regard.
